You don't have to have it figured out to belong here.

The Haven is a United Methodist emerging community in Stanly County. We know God is Love. We believe every person is created in the image of God and has sacred worth — and we mean every person.

Worship
Fridays 6:30 · Sundays 5:00
Which day varies — check before you come
Where
Wesley Chapel UMC & in homes
Dress code
Come as you are

Church done differently

What makes us different

Plenty of people love God and are done with church as they've experienced it. The Haven exists for them — and for anyone who's never walked into a sanctuary in their life.

  • We meet Friday or Sunday evening. No scramble to get everyone dressed and out the door on a Sunday morning.
  • We eat together. Most gatherings involve a real meal, not a coffee hour.
  • We take questions seriously. Doubt isn't a problem to be fixed here. Bring it.
  • We show up in the community. Service isn't a program we offer — it's a good deal of what we actually do.
  • There's no single front door. Some people only ever come to Conversations. Some only to The Community Table. Nobody's tracking attendance or waiting for you to graduate to something.
  • Everyone has sacred worth. That isn't a slogan we put on a sign. It's the standard we hold ourselves to.

Join us

Worship, Friday or Sunday evening

Fridays at 6:30 PM, or Sundays at 5:00 PM. Which day it lands on moves week to week, so it's worth checking before you come. Once in a while there's a morning service instead — a combined parish worship, an Easter sunrise — and those get announced ahead.

Most weeks we're at Wesley Chapel United Methodist Church in Misenheimer. Some weeks we're in someone's living room. That's on purpose — worship doesn't only belong inside a church building, and getting out into the community where people actually live is part of following Jesus, not a break from it.

Next up

Next gathering

    See everything coming up

    What to expect your first time

    • Wear whatever you'd wear to a friend's house. Jeans are the norm.
    • You won't be singled out, asked to stand, or put on a list.
    • Kids are welcome in the room. Noise is fine.
    • There's no expectation that you give anything.
    • Come late, leave early. Nobody notices, and nobody minds.
    • Come once and not again for two months. Still nobody keeping score.
    • Come to one thing and never the others. Plenty of people only ever make it to Conversations, or The Community Table, or a special event. That's a whole way to belong here, not a lesser one.

    Wesley Chapel UMC
    46963 Wesley Chapel Rd
    Misenheimer, NC 28109
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    About 10 minutes from Richfield, 15 from Albemarle, and just up the road from Pfeiffer University.

    Beyond Sunday

    What we actually do

    The Haven worships in many ways. Some of it looks like a church service. A lot of it doesn't.

    2nd Sundays · 5–7 PM

    Hands & Feet Worship

    Worship where the work is the worship. Mostly that means assembling Addison Blessing Bags — bags of essentials for neighbors who need them — along with whatever else needs doing. Bring your hands.

    Weekly · Wed or Thu, 6:30 PM

    Wednesday & Thursday Conversations

    A weekly book study — closer to a book club than a Bible study, though we've worked through books of the Bible too. Recent reads: Do I Stay Christian? (Brian D. McLaren), God and the Gay Christian (Matthew Vines), The Screwtape Letters (C. S. Lewis), and the Book of Exodus.

    3rd Sundays · Albemarle

    The Community Table

    We cook and serve at The Community Table, 506 S 1st St in Albemarle. We gather around 10:00 AM and serve from 11:00 to 12:30, putting hot meals in front of our neighbors.

    Check the calendar

    Cocktails & Theology

    Drinks, heavy snacks, and honest questions about God — usually in someone's home. No prerequisites, no wrong questions, no one grading your answers. It doesn't run every week, so check the calendar for the next one.

    Every so often

    Family Dinner

    Exactly what it sounds like. We meet up somewhere — a house, a restaurant — and eat dinner together. No study, no agenda, no program. Just catching up and enjoying each other's company.

    Throughout the year

    Music, Meal & Fellowship

    Live music — like Stumptown Brass — paired with a BBQ dinner, an ice cream social, or whatever else gets people in the same room.

    Straight from our Facebook

    What's happening now

    Photos, events, and updates — posted once on Facebook, shown here automatically.

    Upcoming events

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      Support the work

      Give & get involved

      The Haven runs on people showing up — with time, with supplies, and with financial support. All three matter, and none of them is a prerequisite for belonging here.

      Give financially

      Online giving runs through the WNCC UM Collective. On the giving page:

      1. Enter the amount you'd like to give
      2. Select "Give to the Haven" from the first drop-down
      3. Choose how often from the next drop-down
      4. Pick credit/debit card or ACH transfer from a checking or savings account
      5. Click Continue

      Give online

      Prefer a check? Mail it to The Haven, PO Box 1307, Albemarle, NC 28002.

      Give supplies

      The quickest way to help is our Amazon list for Addison Blessing Bags — buy an item and it ships straight to us for the next Hands & Feet Worship.

      Blessing Bags list

      Give time

      • Join a 3rd Sunday at The Community Table in Albemarle.
      • Email us to help out in the community — there's almost always something going on.
      • Pray for this community and the people we serve.

      Say hello

      Get in touch

      Questions, prayer requests, or just want to know what you're walking into? Reach out. A real person answers.

      Phone
      (704) 881-3873
      Email
      hello@thehavenumc.org
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      Mail
      PO Box 1307
      Albemarle, NC 28002